Although we all know that our bedroom should be a sacred space that contributes to restful sleep, we can often forget that our bedroom must create an environment worthy of deep emotional and physical intimacy in a relationship. Spending time with our partners outside of the bedroom can be difficult. For this reason, the bedroom really needs to be a space that is safe, romantic and free from distractions.
If you need to know how to bring a spark back into your bedroom, read on.
How to make your bedroom more romantic
You have therefore decided to make your bedroom a more intimate and romantic place for you and your partner. If you follow these six tips, you will be there in no time.
Minimize clutter and distractions
A bedroom full of things will distract you and your partner from the most important thing – from each other. Be sure to use solutions such as a good laundry basket for clothes, storage containers, and dressers. Everything that lives in your bedroom should have its own space to ensure that there is no mess. If you need help with this, we recommend that you consider the Kon Mari method, which became famous through the popular Netflix star Marie Kondo.
Keep things symmetrical
Being in a relationship means being equal partners, two halves into a whole. It is important that both partners feel the same in the bedroom. To promote this, it is important to have a centered bed with two identical bedside tables on each side. Storage space can be a problem in some dorms, and we know that women often have more clothing and personal care products than men. However, if you really want to promote a sense of equality, it is important that couples also get the same closet and chest of drawers space.
Choose the right decor
It is important that the furnishings in your room promote a sense of calm, peace and romance. Dusky rose, terracotta, deep blue and green green can help you with this. Light and pastel colors can be too distracting. In addition, the decor in your bedroom should reflect the taste and personality of both of you. You need to be sure that you choose the pieces together and create a harmonious theme that you both can enjoy. An easy way to do this is to agree on a color palette (usually 1-2 colors and some neutral colors) and continue from there.
Invest in bedding
Premium bedding makes your bed more comfortable and makes it where you want to be. Cuddling in bed shouldn't be uncomfortable or scratchy. While the good sheets can be much more expensive than you are used to, your love life will thank you for it
Get the right bed
While memory foam beds are popular, it is important to remember that they have no bounce and are often not firm enough to carry the weight of two people on top of each other, which causes a pair to sink into the mattress. You can get the same benefits of memory foam by investing in a hybrid mattress that has spring coils for a little bounce and is covered with layers of memory foam for contouring and comfort. These beds are often more expensive than memory foam or spring mattresses, but your relationship deserves the best. If you're still struggling to find a perfect mattress that suits you and your partner, take the time to go to Sleepstandards.com for more knowledge-based instructions.
Keep the TV in the living room
Watching TV before bed is terrible for your sleep, but it can also affect your love life. Take the time to enjoy yourself every night, even when you are not having sex, without distractions. If you keep the TV out of the bedroom, neither of you will be tempted. If you have a movie night, feel free to cuddle and chat on the couch, but the bedroom should only focus on intimacy and sleep.
Conclusion
If you follow these six tips to turn your bedroom into a love cave, you are sure to create a healthier environment for your relationship. Remember that all changes should be done in pairs and open communication is always the key.
